Confused well not anymore

We drove up to the trailer to show side of town and my grandmother came to the door and called me Linda. She also mentioned I haven't seen you since your dad's funeral. I was taken back how about this information I didn't know what to think. My Aunt Joyce had been away during dad's funeral. My uncle had brought his mother-in-law to my dad's funeral. This was a lot for me to take in and process. It seems at times my first family wants to be close to me but shy away from me. They just don't know how to process what is happened throughout the years.