Unintentional comments

I sometimes stop and think about things that hurt me being.

I recall now how words statements, effected me.

Growing up I was expected to fit in my family.

This was when my adoption wasn't talked about!

I remember It when a family history book was published The words Margaret is adopted surprised me.

My adoption wasn't talked-about. I felt like I don't belong in the family.

A piece of paper says that I do.

I know you don't know why it matters

It's assumed!

It then hurt when mom introduced me as her

Adopted Daughter! After mom spoke openly about my adoption!

I know that mom didn't mean (sweet mom)to hurt me.

If I had mentioned it to mom would apologize

As she mom thoughtof me as her Margaret. Mom was proud of me. As she got older became dependent on me.

I am 63 and I have to let go of hurtful experiences as it does not matter anymore.

I miss my mom.

Let's remember the good!