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I have to speak out

I openly share with Adoptees about how I get through my daily challenges as a Adoptee concerning adoption. I manage well. I didn't say...

I will not be a Secret

I am fed up with Family! Idea that my identity is to be Private! SECRET! I get the impression that people are embarrassed about me!...

Birthdays

I don't have any problem with my birthday! My parents made a big deal about my birthday and me. A birthday cake and card. It was a time...

I Remember

October 30 has been designated as Adopted Rememberance Day. Myself and along with fellow Adoptees REMEMBER! Many adoptees have never...

I belong

I recently heard about lyrics to a song NoBodies child. This statement has broken my heart. I want to dispel this lie! I have had 2 sets...

Unintentional comments

I sometimes stop and think about things that hurt me being. I recall now how words statements, effected me. Growing up I was expected to...

Reason why! I get triggered

I am not fond of movies on Adoption or stories about adoption. I am adopted! My adoption journey is different from most people My...

How do i get rid of the pain

How do I get past birth family not acknowledging me. Its a good question. From experience it hurts and stings like stinging nettle which...

Unfortunate circumstances Trauma Ended Well

Not everyone's adoption story has started well or ended well. I am aware of the misuse of explaining adoption. A gift, beautiful!...

Making progress

Making Peace with my Past I have gotten a bit irritated with the attitudes with some adoptees. I can never get over my adoption...

I am content with my life.

I am at the age where I am content with my life. When it comes to being adopted! I am content with living in the present ! I don't need a...

My Experience

What was your experience reaching out to biological family? I am going to speak on a topic that I feel forme has been forbidden to speak...

Use Adoption Story to help others

I have a heart for people who are adopted! I am adopted my self I understand issues that adopted people have. I was blessed to have had...

Feeling good about adoption

I may step on some toes! I use to think that Adoption ruined my life. I am learning we make the most of what we have experienced to help...

Celebrate

Birthdays are for celebration of me! The day I came into the world being me! God finished making Me. Yes my start at first was Rough. I...

What makes me cringe

I love finding a treasure. A treasure is a hat. It means decorating a haat and adding it to my collection. Just after i purchased my hat...

Nosey? Sneaky!

You may asking this question. What do I mean that I feel I am nosey and sneaky.? First off I told people that I was adopted. I was...

Choose your response to painful memories

You cannot change your past. Don't stay in the Past This week i have been writing about my past and talking about my past. I have...

Trauma not Drama

. Adoptees need to know that we matter. You might think that this is odd. An Adoptee needs to know where we fit. . I appear to be strong...

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