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I am valued by God and Loved

I am loved I am valued, by God. Now that I am a adult and I have heard that your parents did their best to raise you. I often wonder if...

Held hostage stealing my identity

When my mom wouldn't tell me about my birth parents and told me she wasn't free to tell me I sent from my information. I filled out forms...

Reunion

I have not written about reunion and how family reacted to me. First off I am disappointed with how family reacted to me. I think my...

Forgive ness A choice!

My adoption story is different from most people. My adoption is Kinship adoption. My life started out with family. My future was decided...

Rights

I know that I cannot control people actions. I am talking about rights and freedom. At 62 I am not talking about people's responses. I...

I have the Right!

I have the right to ask questions. The right s of adoptees. I have the right to receive Honest answers. from family and the province. I...

Trauma stirred up

Loss The pandemic brought up the issues of trauma separation from my adoption. The pandemic happened fast and we suffered loss and...

Adoption woes

I am adopted. I am a adult adoptee I am married and we don't have children. I am 62 years old and I've been married 31 years. I know...

Good morning

I have been sensitive to people's comments. I don't need to be so sensitive. I find it hard to shake things off. I guess the fear lingers...

Performance doesn't work Be Yourself

Lately I have allowed a few things to build up. I am like a volcano and I erupt when I allow things to build up. It hasn't help that I...

Scrutinized or fixed

Just because I tell you about my adoption journey doesn't automatically mean I need to be scrutinize by you. I don't need to be fixed....

I own My journey to healing in Adoption

What helped me in my adoption journey As many of you know my adoption was kinship. I had similar experiences but with the twist of...

Shedding inferiority complex to freedom

I have experienced Jesus love in a new way. I have come to understand that Jesus holds me in high regard. I see that all of my days of...

Birthday anticipated

The sunny bright weather is encouraging. Especially in February. It is less than 7 days until my birthday. I will turn 62 ! Where did...

Birthday coming up

Despite my beginnings of my mother giving me up at 7 days old my birthday has been celebrated. My parents made my birthday a big deal. We...

Out of the Pit set free

For a long time after I found out the truth about my family identity it took courage to share my story. I was believed a lie that if I...

Be aware!

I am trying to form my words as I listen to the Holy Spirit to be sensitive to the Holy Spirits leading as I write from my heart. To be...

I am a Christ follower

I am a adoptee. I suffered from trauma. I have lived with the after math side effects of trauma. I have made a decision that it does not...

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